Let's denote the time it takes for Jeff to wash and wax the car as x hours and the time it takes for his dad to wash and wax the car as y hours.
Jeff can do the job in 3 hours, so his work rate is \frac{1}{3} of the car per hour.
Similarly, Jeff's dad can do the job in 2 hours, so his work rate is \frac{1}{2} of the car per hour.
When they work together, their work rates are combined, so the equation becomes:
\frac{1}{3} + \frac{1}{2} = \frac{1}{x} + \frac{1}{y}
To solve for x and y , we notice that Jeff and his dad are working on the same job, the time taken when working together is the same, so:
\frac{1}{x} + \frac{1}{y} = \frac{1}{3} + \frac{1}{2} = \frac{5}{6}
Now, we need to find the time for both of them to complete the job together, which is the reciprocal of the combined work rate:
x = y = \frac{1}{\frac{5}{6}} = \frac{6}{5} \text{ hours}
Therefore, it will take Jeff and his dad \frac{6}{5} hours to wash and wax the car together.
\boxed{\frac{6}{5}\text{ or 1.2 hours}}